MY parents are really nosey and I can’t handle it anymore. I’m an adult person and I would like to take care of my heath by myself, the fact is that I can’t do it because my parents are always there to tell me what to do. I can’t stand my dad, because in comparison with my mother he is the one who make it worse. He worked all his life in the medical fields and it’s hard to tell him lies about a drug or about something that I take because he knows everything. He is always by my side when I have to go to my doctor when I have to pass some tests to see how my health is going, and when I talk with my doctor he is always there to agree or not with the prescription that my doctor would like to give me. I always feel like I’m a 2 years old kind that can’t do it by myself. I understand that he worked in the medical field and he knows better than me but it’s really annoying. As he come with me to the pain clinic I feel like he is my doctor not anyone else. He already knows all the consultants and he can have the access to my files. Just think about this.. I can’t even take the painkiller that I like because he will be there to prescribe me another one. I tried to talk with him many times, and he never wants to do it, he is always ignoring me and trying to avoid me when he sees that I’m really nervous about his decisions.
Every time he come to visit me I hide all my IOP pills and trying to feel my best just to avoid talking about pills I should take and that it’s my fault because I don’t what to listen what he wants for me.
In fact I arrived to have IOP pills because of him, because some pills that really help me he doesn’t agree. The last drop of patience was last week that event made me come here and write about this to you. I was in the bathroom doing my things and when I finished I heard my father behind the bathroom door asking me to not to flush. When he came to bathroom he started to look at my urine and told me to visit my doctor for some tests. I gone mad when I have heard about this, how can he come to my bathroom and to exanimate it. To make you understand today I feel okay, I don’t have any issued and I feel really healthy. There was no reason for my father to come to my bathroom and to do what he has done. Now I’m here asking you for help. I have tried so many things and I have tried so many times to talk with him about this but all the time he is absent. My mother is quite the same, except the fact that she is not so experienced in medicine and she have never worked so tide as my father, that’s why she never knows what to recommend me to take. But she is always calling me asking me about how many times I eat, what I eat how many time I go to bathroom. If I couldn’t fall asleep during one night I will never tell them about this, because they will turn it as a serious problem. I have done it before and I have learned my lesson. My mother is always supporting my father in everything that he is doing for to me. Not so long ago I started to hide my IOP pills from my mother too. She doesn’t know about them as my father does, but I find out that when she came to visit me she always take picture of my pills when I don’t see it for my father… and you can understand very well what it is going to be if my father sees it.
I don’t know what to do, I know I love my parents but now every time they want to visit me I feel really bad and I don’t what to see them.. This is really awful and I have never thought that one day something like this will happen to me. I know that all the parents especially fathers are always a little bit more nosey than mother to their daughters but not like mine. He beat all the possible records.